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Barely hanging on?"
February 09, 2016
February 9, 2016 Issue #119
If you're barely hanging on, know hope is possibleAll single people go through times of crisis in their life. If, right at this moment, you don't feel as if you're barely hanging on, trust me, that time will come.
We're emotional creatures and the world can be a very troublesome place. When problems pile up, you sometimes feel as if you just can't take any more.
Lots of things can push us to the brink. How about unemployment? Someone picking on you? Breakup of a promising relationship? Loneliness? Death of a loved one? Life-threatening illness?
I've gone through every one of those, but here I am today. My life proves you can make it through. Look, I'm no genius or guru. The value of these newsletters and my web site is I had a 30 or 40 year head start on you down this path. I've already had to deal with the things that are still coming up for you.
Quite honestly, I didn't handle some of those turning points very well. But I did learn from my mistakes, and I try to pass both my smart and dumb moves on to you. I try not to lecture, but if that's how I come across at times, you'll just have to bear with me and remember--it's all free!
This month I put some thoughts together on lessons I've learned about life's most stressful situations. I'm still learning, but at least I know more than I did at 25.
I think you'll find this helpful if you're barely hanging on.
Take the hand that's offeredEvery day you go through life
convinced that you're alone.
Weary from the battle
with the trouble you have known.
How foolish not to look above
Take the hand that's offered,
You're not as strong as you believe.
Don't be too proud to take the hand
So take the hand that's offered,
~ Jack Zavada, 2016 ~
February quote a nugget from Mrs. StoweFor our February Quotation of the Month, we turn to abolitionist Harriet Beecher Stowe, who penned the book Uncle Tom's Cabin:
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe (1811-1896) ~
Bad times only seem to last forever. A minute in pain feels longer than an hour of happiness. But nobody's life is all chocolates and roses. Even cheerful people go through trials.
The key to persevering, as Mrs. Stowe notes, is to never give up. Whether it's illness, unemployment, or heartache, you can keep on keeping on, knowing eventually things will get better. Do what you can to change things then pray for God's help.
When you feel God's hand on your shoulder, you can get through anything. He gives you courage to do what's
needed and strength to keep doing it until a breakthrough comes.
How to beat loneliness with smartsIf you feel lonely, where do those feelings come from? That question is answered in depth in my ebook, Outsmarting Loneliness.
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Quotations on overcomingThere's a good reason for breaks during the work day. They give you enough rest to start fresh, to break the monotony, to regain your enthusiasm. We all need to take breaks in life, too.
If the going has been too tough for too long, take a breather. Do something different. Get some recreation. A good night's sleep and a good meal can work wonders.
Then pray and ask God to help you overcome. He wants you to, you know. Face your challenges knowing the power of the Holy Spirit is inside you, making you an overcomer.
Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome.
If you expect life to be easy, challenges will seem difficult. If you accept that challenges may occur, life will be easier.
God’s grace gives strength to overcome any situation.
A challenge only becomes an obstacle when you bow to it.
Don't let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.
Fresh activity is the only means of overcoming adversity.
There is in every woman's heart a spark of heavenly fire which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity, but which kindles up and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity.
Don’t let a bad day make you feel like you have a bad life.
Every flower must grow through dirt.
Here's some Valentine's Day encouragementFunny how we let our culture manipulate us. We can feel guilty when we've done nothing wrong and ashamed because we supposedly don't "fit in." That's why I have mixed feelings about Valentine's Day.
If you could use a lift for this coming holiday, take a look at a couple past articles:
Don't judge your entire life by Valentine's Day, okay? On the 15th, you'll wake up and say, "Well, I got through another one. Time to get back on track!"
I hope you found this issue of Inspire-O-Gram helpful. If you have a friend or relative who might enjoy it, please forward it on to them. And, as always, you can send me Valentine's greetings (or a virtual onion bouquet) at contact form or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
We're plowing through winter here in Illinois in the USA. My little dog Louie and I are taking our walks in near-zero wind chills this week. But Lent starts tomorrow and Easter isn't far off. It'll be spring before you know it!
Until March, hang tough and love Jesus,
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