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Rising above discouragement"
May 17, 2016
May 17, 2016 Issue #122
Rising above discouragement is a lifelong battle for singlesEvery month when I'm preparing this newsletter, the first question I ask myself is "How can I make this issue more relevant to the singles who read it?"
That's why May's feature article is about rising above discouragement. Every human being struggles with discouragement, but we singles are especially vulnerable.
What do you do when your dreams don't come true? How do you keep going when the things you wanted most are out of your grasp and you have to accept you'll never get them? How do you take what you've got and learn to be content with it?
These are hard questions--too hard to answer in this month's short feature article. But I hope to point you to a few key principles I have used over my lifetime when I feel discouraged. Once again, I can't offer you a quick fix. I can only point you in what I believe is the right direction.
You and I both want to have a happy life. The sooner a person understands that he or she has most of the say over whether their life is happy, the sooner the good times begin.
So let's take a serious look at what's behind rising above discouragement.
Coffee and corn flakesCoffee and corn flakes start my day,
read my Bible
I'm on my way.
Never know how your life will roll
Knock you down like a bowling pin
Coffee and corn flakes,
Know the Truth now,
~ Jack Zavada, 2016 ~
Warren Wiersbe is our May quotemeisterVeteran American pastor, Bible teacher, and prolific author Warren W. Wiersbe has our Quotation of the Month for May:
~ Warren Wiersbe (1929- ) ~
Too often when we try to figure things out on our own, we go in circles. I know that's been my experience. I tend to focus so intently on my own situation that I get discouraged by it.
But the Bible gives us the big picture. It helps us see our discouragements as small pieces in a larger puzzle. Each piece in itself may seem meaningless, but all of the episodes in our life, when fit together, make sense. Nothing points you to the Truth like the Word of God.
You'll find hope in God because he loves you. He does not give you everything you want, even though to you it seems good, but remember that God's love
is independent of your circumstances. God is for you. The Bible assures you of that truth.
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If one dream ends, find anotherWe all have dreams, and I'm not talking about the kind you experience while you're sleeping. Dreams are ambitions, desires, aspirations. We have goals and plans we want to accomplish.
But often our dreams don't work out, no matter how hard we try. Life isn't fair, and any mature adult knows you can't get everything you want. That's when it's time to find a new dream, and if that doesn't work, yet another new one.
Never stop dreaming. Here are some quotations to encourage you:
A dream doesn't become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work.
Nothing happens unless first we dream.
Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.
Dreams, if they're any good, are always a little bit crazy.
Life always begins with
one step outside of your comfort zone.
Begin somewhere. You cannot build a reputation on what you intend to do.
The only thing worse than starting something and failing ... is not starting something.
Some people see things that are and ask, Why?
You have to have a dream so you can get up in the morning.
God's gifts put man's best dreams to shame.
Why it's hard being a grown-upMany people have the mistaken idea that if they "grow up," then all their fun will stop. So they keep acting like a little kid all their life. Now I believe in laughing, being spontaneous, goofiness, and enjoying life. But I also believe in maturity.
I believe we should all strive for emotional and spiritual maturity. I define emotional maturity as accepting responsibility, obeying the law, treating your body like your permanent home instead of a rented apartment, and treating other people with kindness. Spiritual maturity is pursuing a deeper, more intimate relationship with Jesus Christ every day.
At times, being a grown-up is hard, but it's also the wisest way.
You have fewer regrets. You don't hurt other people as often. You're a more authentic person. People respect you more. You experience soul-deep joy because you're right with God.
Let's all have a good time. But let's also be grown-ups.
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It's a privilege to visit you each month, fellow singleton. Thank you. And if you have a friend who might benefit from this newsletter, please forward it on to him or her.
Back at ya in June! Keep the faith!
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