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How to persevere...
March 09, 2022
How to persevere through painHave you ever thought other people are skating along through life, happy, satisfied, with no worries at all?
The best truth I've ever heard about that assumption came from Benedict Groeschel, a wise Franciscan friar, in his book Arise from Darkness:
"…So we all live with the illusion that everyone else is having a wonderful time. Ask others how they're doing, and they'll say, "Fine." And they'll ask you and you'll say, "Fine." None of us is doing fine at all. It's a blessing to work with the poor—they don't say "Fine." Ask them how things are going and they'll say, "Awful."
We don't need more play-acting. What we need are ways to persevere, because this world is not getting any better.
We singles pray for Parting-of-the-Red-Sea sized miracles when what we really need is the power to get out of bed in the morning and make it through another day.
So this month's feature article spells out some practical ways to keep going,
based on my own lumpy-bumpy life. Check out How to persevere.
I can do todayWhen trouble tries to crush you,
when your hope is almost gone,
how can you face the future,
how do you carry on?
I learned a crucial lesson
When I wake up in the morning
I don't give in to worry,
But I can do today.
I can do today.
So let God be your power.
~ Jack Zavada, www.inspiration-for-singles.com, 2022 ~
Did you turn your life around in 2021?If you didn't make the changes you wanted last year, it's time to try something new.
Hope for Hurting Singles will give you a whole toolbox of proven principles for 2022, strategies that author Jack Zavada learned through 40 years of trial and error in the single life.
Have you made progress on your loneliness? Depression? Anger? Low self-esteem? Hope for Hurting Singles tackles all those problems and more, with practical insight gathered from experience. Learn what to do, and more importantly, learn how to avoid the wrong approaches that will make you spin your wheels in vain.
Hope for Hurting Singles is not a saccharine collection of platitudes, but a down-to-earth instruction manual for the single life.
Don't let 2022 slip away with the same old excuses. Take control of your life—today!
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QOTM: How Christianity helps you persevereMarch's Quote of the Month comes from Alistair Begg, senior pastor of Parkside Church in Cleveland, OH, and the voice of the radio program Truth for Life:
~ Alistair Begg (1952 - ) ~
Where do you turn if you're not a Christian? Your own limited wisdom? Drugs? Alcohol? Eating disorders? Sexual promiscuity? That's how most nonbelievers cope with stress. And you know what? None of that works.
Christians don't have any fewer problems. I think we have more. But we have the wisdom of God in the Bible to guide us. We have the Holy Spirit inside to strengthen us. And we have Jesus Christ to save us from our sins. Yes, sin is a real thing for nonbelievers too; they just don't call it that.
Christianity, thank God, is as real as life gets.
I thought you could use a micro-vacation, so when I had some spare time, I wrote a batch of limericks and put them on the site.
I hope they give you a laugh, or at least the hint of a smile. If you have a friend who could use some cheering up, please tell him or her about these.
You'll find them right here.
Quotations about perseveranceIt helps to know you're not alone in your struggles. Other people have gone there before you.
I scoured the Internet a few years ago and collected these quotations about perseverance.
Why you can bet your life on heavenA few years ago I wrote an article on barely hanging on, and was surprised when it became one of the most popular pieces on the site.
That told me many singles are having a hard go of it. Perseverance, the theme of this issue, makes the difference. We all have up days and down days. Some singles are carrying around wounds that, let's face it, can only be healed in the next life.
There is a next life, a heaven. I believe that because Jesus promised it, and Jesus never lied. Not once.
We have to be careful not to be influenced by the cynical world around us. If we truly believe the Bible is the inspired word of God, it gives us hope that this life is not all there is. Your and my stories will not only continue after physical death, they'll only get better and better.
So we have hope that our soul-deep hurts will be put right. We have hope that the love we've been seeking will be ours and in overflowing abundance, because Jesus said so.
Meanwhile, we have to live on this Dumpster fire called Earth. We have to do our job every day, interact with other fallen people, and try to squeeze some happiness out of our situation. A tall task indeed.
My prayer is that these newsletters help you with those challenges. Many of the things I tell you were the harvest of painful experiences. I'm not ashamed. I want you to learn from my mistakes so you can avoid them yourself.
If you care to email me about this issue or www.inspiration-for-singles.com, our unhackable contact form will route your letter directly to my personal inbox. I'll read it and send you a personal reply within three days. No answerbots for this guy.
Thanks again for reading, fellow singleton. Easter is on the way, our living promise that someday we will see Jesus face to face.
Won't that be the best.
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