Find self esteem that lasts,
no matter what happens

Where do you get your self esteem from?

Do you get it from your job? Your appearance? Your education? Your house or apartment? Your clothes? Your car? From your family, friends, a hobby, or a special talent?

The problem with getting your self esteem from any of those things is that they are all vulnerable. Education is a worthwhile pursuit, but at the rate the world is changing, a high school diploma or college degree is dated even five years after you get it. Education is important, but it shouldn't be the source of your self esteem.

If you get your self worth from your house or apartment and the way you've decorated or furnished it, just consider for a moment the victims of Hurricane Katrina. Their homes were obliterated by the storm. Nothing--absolutely nothing--was left of them.

The illusion of ownership

When you come right down to it, home ownership, like ownership of every material possession, is an illusion. We don't really own anything. We just use it while we're here, then when we're gone, somebody else uses it. Think of the tools, dishes, furniture, or other things you got from people who have passed away.

Clothes have an even shorter life-span. We eventually tire of every piece of clothing we own, or they too wear out. Cars come and go. Even family and friends move away or die. Talent is a wonderful thing, but like education, it requires constant practice and nurturing.

Permanent self esteem

By now you may be feeling pretty depressed. But there's no need to. If you get your self worth from the right place, it only grows stronger every day. It never wears out, dies, or is lost.

God loves you not for what you can do, how you look, or how much money you have. He loves you simply because you're you.

His love for you is not based on your performance or any external thing. He created you out of pure love.

The real secret

God's love for you doesn't change. It will never change, through all eternity. God's love for you is indestructible.

Give some new thought to your priorities. Think about all the things you cherish. No doubt many of them are good and worthwhile. But set a goal to re-order your life.

Make your relationship with Jesus Christ your top priority, and the source of your self esteem. It will keep you strong no matter what happens to you in life.

How to be more sure of yourself

Single & Sure, my new ebook, is packed with easy-to-apply, real world tips on how to build and maintain your self-esteem.

What would it be like, if instead of dreading your day, you couldn't wait to get out of bed in the morning to see what great things were going to happen?

What if, instead of hesitating, you felt God's wonder-working power coursing through you, leading you on to bigger and better things?

This is possible and it can happen to you. Learn how to be Single & Sure...

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