Patience recognizes that the world is not going to end if we have to wait a while.
From sitting in traffic to standing in a checkout line to hoping for God to answer our prayers, we've somehow decided we shouldn't have to wait for anything. In fact, many people consider it a personal insult.
“The secret of patience is to do something else in the meantime,” said Pastor Croft N. Pentz. Yes, it makes the waiting go faster.
I had a relative who would make the first appointment in the morning at the doctor's office and would be standing outside when the receptionist unlocked the door, solely because he made himself miserable if he had to wait.
And that's the key, isn't it? We make ourselves miserable.
But where does patience come from? How do we cultivate it? How do we overcome our anxiety and become more easygoing?
We've grown spoiled and demanding. Each of us thinks we deserve special treatment. When we're inconvenienced in the slightest, we feel like telling someone off. Many people interpret slow or poor service as disrespect. Everybody's so touchy about their "rights."
This sense of entitlement is everywhere. It causes road rage. Store customers become rude and unruly. The ugly peak of someone believing they were mistreated is a mass shooting.
It's not as important how we reached this point as it is looking at ourselves so we can make a turnaround.
It takes great strength of character to be kind and understanding. Anybody can be offensive. These babies in adult bodies throw tantrums to get their way because at some point in the past, that behavior worked for them.
Much of this nastiness could be cured by kindness. Genuine kindness is more rare than diamonds. You can see a diamond on the hands of half the women in the country, but how often do you see a truly kind person?
Yet kindness should be the hallmark of a Christian. Kindness demands we treat others as we would want to be treated. You'll stand out from the masses if you do that. You'll be someone people remember.
The unexpected benefit to you in this? Less indigestion, fewer headaches. Lower blood pressure. An increased ability to forgive.
When we're making this worthwhile change we must be patient with ourselves, too. We'll make mistakes. Progress will be slow and difficult, but this is one quality that will make your life incredibly happier.
Your patience is a gift you offer another. It recognizes their worth. It acknowledges their human dignity, no matter their position.
Try these simple steps to raising your patience level:
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